Why

Why this blog?

I've been on dating sites quite a few times in my life. 

I believe I even wrote a few chapters about it in one of my books. 

It's mostly filed research if you want. My passion for human behaviour pushes me to do loads of things that are not quite normal. 

I read profiles carefully. Males profile. Men's. 

I reflect on what drives humanity. 

I have noticed from the start that on dating sites men aren't generally looking for love, but neither are the women. 

I mean, deep down, most (or many) of us dream of a (subjective) love, but then we compromise and even deny that we crave it. Any sort of intimacy it's better than nothing. 

Have I met „the One”? 

No. 

I didn't go on many dates. Quite the contrary. 

I observe and analyse from behind a monitor. Cold-hearted. 

This blog is more of a vademecum for those who are looking for some insight and might land on this blog by mistake.